We Practice Mountain...

"There is a mountain inside each of us and it keeps us solid and calm..." 
- Thich Nhat Hanh
This Sunday we explored what it means to be Solid as a mountain.
As always it was a cozy, creative, reflective time to focus on our sensory connections, and dig a little deeper. It is wonderful for us to be able to practice this way together- thank you all for coming & sharing this time with us! 

Here's a recap of what we did... 

We Began our Sunday in song! Each season we have explored ways to gather and begin the workshop a little differently. Starting our morning with song as we have done consistently this time round feels really nice. Each week it has set the background for our theme, and this week was no different. 
"There's ol' Buddha, sittin' under a Bodhi tree
... doesn't mind rain, doesn't mind thunder... what could bother 'ol Buddha I wonder..."
- Rev. Patricia Dai-En Bennage
In this interactive song our Buddha wasn't bothered by "people taking his toys" (a well put suggestion), and that sounded pretty challenging, so we decided to take it one step further and substitute some of our names with things that normally bother us - it was super silly and just plain fun!

To our Feelings poem & stretch we added one more pose to reflect the mountain in this weeks theme. The stretch consisted of rooting our legs and imaging ourselves trees caught up in the winds of a storm - with our feet strong, our arms wild and waving about we say "feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky" 2x. Then in slow motion we move to yoga tree pose while we say "conscious breathing is my anchor" and the second time we say it, we slowly go into yoga mountain pose, and bring our mind & body back down to solid ground. 
Model this at home when things get stormy... bet you'll have everyone's attention!

"When we connect to this Mountain space inside of us we are no longer shaky, distracted, or restless. We are strong, firmly rooted to the earth and not easily pulled into anger, fear, regret or worry." 
"No wind or storm can blow a mountain over" 
"When you are solid, people can rely on you. When your loved one is solid you can rely on him or her.
Solidity is something you can offer yourself and the person you love 
- it makes it possible for us to be happy" - Thich Nhat Hanh 

We listened to the bell as we breathed in these words, and then began our discussion with an investigative activity...  what's your "tipping point"? Breaking up into pairs, one person standing tall - feet together, arms comfortably at their sides. The other person very very gently applies pressure to the standing persons shoulder using only their pointer finger. Well! all were amazed! It was astonishing to see how little it took to tipThe children shared what triggers their feelings to tip off balance, become irritated, or angry. "My brother", "My mother telling me what to do", "When the stove is on and it makes the room too hot", "not being able to do what I want to do" everyone was on the same page. 
We continued our INVESTIGATION, but this time we stood instead feet apart. This tiny adjustment proved to bring very different results. 2,3,4 times the pressure and ... no tipping! SOLID as a mountain instead. The children then shared when they feel connected, solid, and safe... being with family and animals echoed around the circle. We ended our discussion by sharing some of the ways we are relied upon. "Feeding the chickens, taking care of the ponies, getting myself ready, taking care of my cats", were all proudly mentioned. 

TREE HUGGERS we were. Outside we went to find a special tree - each to his/her own. We looked, and listened, and touched, and sat, to see, and just be, with a  tree. Some named their tree - we had "Bernie", "The giving Tree", and "Lemonade", other trees shared their names  - as did "Leaf". Special qualities found, were fruit, not crumbly, super hard, peeling bark, tall, strong, and safe. What a wonderful way to look deeply,  and appreciate the calm peaceful energy of a tree. 

Pumpkin CARROT muffins, cider and carrot orange juice were served around the circle as each in turn offered the next to eat and drink. All helped to read the seven food contemplations, and then sat back to enjoy the autumn spices.
  
In Aloka and The Band of Robbers from The Buddha's Apprentice, Aloka is brave and wise when faced with a potentially dangerous situation. His inner mountain - solid & calm - keeps him clear headed, and able to outsmart the robbers.

CLAY time was FUN time after our Mountain MEDITATION had us all imagining ourselves mountains and connecting to the solid, calm, peaceful, space inside. Complete with trees, animals, and rock, these mountains are a special reminder of inner & outer strength available to us from ourselves, and from the earth... visit the Art Gallery to see their beautiful creative works! 

We Aspire to Flower


BLOOMING...
What a magical Journey we took this past Sunday, discovering our very flower selves! How lovely it was to start our day together, in this fresh and sunny way... 

CELEBRATING...
We Sang of Bird, and Sun, tree and wind, stream, rain and world, in Great Big Smile, a celebration of nature and the oneness of all life... a Planting Seeds CD favorite.
(click here & go back to the blog for lyrics)


"Waking up I smile
24 brand new hours before me
I vow to live them mindfully
with love and compassion for all beings"
-Thich Nhat Hanh
SMILING...
We stretched, and took root, as we brought our Waking up poem to life.  Ask your child to lead the stretch in his or her own way, or follow the step-by-step guide on our Weekly Mindful Challenge page. (click here for guide) 

IMAGINING...
We traveled through time with our good friend AHN, to explore how getting lost in thoughts about the past and future might affect our sense of well being

WE CAUGHT UP WITH HIM on his bicycle, bathed in the beauty of a present moment paradise. All had ideas on what he might be experiencing - "Smelling the salt water", "seeing flowers & sand", "hearing the ocean waves", his "bicycle tires", and "birds", feeling and "tasting the sea air". Some thought him "joyful" or "happy" or "free". There was no doubt in anyone's mind Ahn was blooming! And why not? He looked peaceful, optimistic& connected to the world around him; perfectly in touch with his flower freshness. The children then shared places that made them feel happy and peaceful.

SHIFTING PERSPECTIVE we imagined Ahn's mind began to wander, re-visiting past wounds or fretting about a future uncertain. We used dry erase markers to record the thoughts he might be thinking. Angry: "something happened that made him mad", worried: "maybe he's lost", excited: "he's going to a party", and sad: "maybe something happened to his dog"Like dark and stormy thunderheads the dry erase marker thought bubbles began to crowd and block the clear sky of Ahn's present moment.  

Disconnected from his present moment, and unable to gain solace from the beauty all around himwe watched as his thoughts seemed to hijack his feelings, and transport him bicycle and all to a much different landscape - now his feelings were described as "it's darker", "he's scared", "worried", "he doesn't know where he is"

The question seemed to be HOW WAS AHN GOING TO GET BACK? For us sitting in the circle it was no problem - slipping him out of his plastic sleeve Ahn simply shed his dry erase thought bubbles and let go of the past and future, but what about us? We turn to master teacher Thich Nhat Hanh for a simple yet profound answer... 


"Mindfulness is the energy that helps you to recognize the conditions of happiness. 
Anyone can help remind us that we can be happy right here, and right now- 
So who is going to do that in our daily life?
the answer is YOU have to do that! YOU are the one who has to do that  
You remind yourself and you remind the person next to you, 
and the other person next to her or to him.
That is the practice of mindfulness."

While mindfulness doesn't change the facts of a situation or event, it can transform the way we think about it, and in turn, the way we feel about it, and finally, how we react to it.  Short daily practices like the Waking Up Poem & stretch, or Stopping with Sound, can help our families stay connected and keep these truisms in the forefront of all our minds so that we can remind each other and ourselves.

REFRESHING...
We scooped and scraped our tangy, fuzzy, green Kiwi, and sipped the delicious homemade apple cider. All helped to read our Food Contemplations, set our snack, and tidy up in the end. Many hands helping for all to enjoy.

BEING...
We imagined ourselves flowers as we journeyed in our mind's eye to a magical forest where each breath brought us closer to our own flower freshness. We beamed and bloomed, and felt the warm sun on our petals and leaves, as we nestled protected near the safe and solid trunk of a nearby tree. Exploring all aspects of our new flora form, we listened to the sounds of the bell and breathed in the forest air as it sang for us. 

PAINTING...
We took our flower imaginings and made beautiful wall hangings. Using India ink and watercolor on damp cotton fabric we watched as the colors seemed to blend and grow almost on their own. (click here to see their work)

HAVE A LOOK at what's to come...


Week 5 
We Practice Mountain

Sing-a-long: There's Ol' Buddha from Planting Seeds CD
Feelings poem and stretch from Planting Seeds
Discussion: What it means to be solid from Planting Seeds
Tree Huggers find a special tree explore and share it with the group
Rooted food contemplations with mini carrot muffins and ginger-ale
Our story is Aloka and The Band of Robbers from The Buddha's Apprentice
Mountain Meditation from A Handful of Quiet
Fun with clay: make your own never ending, ever fruitful, mountain



We Experience Taking Care

PUPPETS came to play!...
And helped us explore the unpredictable nature of our emotions. With Ahn as our guide, and our friends gathered around, we set out to uncover just how to take care of strong emotion. Here's a peek at what we did...
"When I'm feeling lost and lonely
and I don't know where to go
I follow my breath 
and my breathing takes me home"
-Jerusha (I Follow MY Breath)
Our SONG this week is one of our favorites... 
I Follow My Breath from the Planting Seeds CD takes a real "how to" approach, and breaks down the essence of mindful breathing in a fun way that gets straight to the point and is a perfect fit for kids. Have a look... we've posted lyrics to the left. 

"Feelings come and go
like clouds in a windy sky
conscious breathing is my anchor"
-Traditional Gatha 
We were TREES bending and stretching...
The Feelings Gatha inspired the stormy skies our imaginary trees flexed and stretched to. Reaching and rooting our branches and trunks we had Maples oak, birch, pine, weeping willow, and an African savannah tree all slowly moving their branches to tree pose, using the breath to anchor and bring mind and body together

All joined in as we IMPROVISED a puppet play...
Our cheerful innkeeper, Ahn, had his hands full as a wedding brought several interesting characters to the Inn. As always Ahn did his best to care for them and all was sunshine and rainbows as happiness, joyful, and excitement checked in and got settled. Events took a hairy turn when idiotic arrived lunging and growling, and foiling all Ahn's attempts to try and sooth her. Once fear and worry pulled up weeping and terribly needy, Ahn was almost completely overwhelmed! It was true puppet madness in classic punch & judy form... until the sound of the bell. When everyone put puppets down and sat for several good breaths. We all found the bell soothing, but we needed more... 

In AHN'S ANGER by Gail Silver we learned more...
We got some real life strategies in this fantastic book about a boy coming face to face with his anger - literally! Like the Innkeeper in our puppet play, Ahn (the boy) has a one on one confrontation with his anger. Here we watch as together with his anger Ahn releases his physical tension through dance, drumming the floor, and howling to the wind, until they are both exhausted, and ready to be still. Then they sit - breathing in & out- they follow their breath. With the help of the excellent illustrations, we could clearly see Ahn's anger slowly fading away. The fact that Ahn befriended his anger was interesting, and different, and gave everyone something to think about.

YUMMY-LICIOUS...
Bananas and chocolate soymilk... what more can we possibly say?

PUPPET LOVE? You bet...
We crafted and created, but we didn't get a chance to photograph them all. - So send us your puppet pix and we will post them in our gallery!

There you have it! Another wonderful start to our Sunday...
Next week we will begin our Pebble Meditation series, with FLOWER / FRESH as the theme. We look forward to seeing you then! Here's a look at what's ahead...

Week 4 we aspire to flower
Sing-a-long Great Big Smile from Planting Seeds CD
Waking up poem and stretch from Planting Seeds
Discussion: conditions for happiness are already inside you from Planting Seeds
Light bulb Demonstrationconnect to your source 
Fresh food contemplations with Kiwi, and lemonade
Our story is The Small Bowl of Rice from The Buddha's Apprentice
Flower meditation from A Handful of Quiet
Paint a Flower Calligraphy wall hanging

We Discover Stopping...


SOUND was our guide...
As this week we attempted to discover what it means to stop and be with the present moment. Tricky business! It was good to explore with friends. Here's a bit about what we did...
this wonderful sound, brings me back
to my true self." 
-Thich Nhat Hanh
SANG and listened...
As each one of us in turn invited a new sound to the poem. We had triangles, cymbals, a rainstick, wind chime, harpsichord, wooden frog, and 2 types of mindfulness bells! They listened carefully to find which sound each preferred, but found it difficult to put into words ~ "some just sound better than others" was the consensus. 

COLLABORATION rules!
Adding words to their daily stretch is such a nice way to wake up body & mind and bring them together. Their challenge was to put the Listen Listen poem to the stretch test and create a movement routine to go with it.  Much discussion and fine-tuning of each element went in to creating a soulful whole body experience ~ what a pleasure to be a part of their process! Ask your child to teach you what they created together!

STOPPING to the sound of the bell
We began by inviting the children to think about the sound of the bell as if it were the voice of kindness, peace, and understanding, gently calling them back. We invited the bell and practiced breathing a few times to see what it was all about...
Some were bored, others happy, tired, thirsty and restless. This was good! - they were very in touch with what they were feeling. So for the next few breaths we just sat with that, and allowed it to be. I was impressed. During the discussion, they made the connection between stopping, and waiting, and they uncovered a very important difference... stopping had to do with what was going on inside, and waiting had to do with what wasn't going on outside! Some of the children shared particularly difficult moments of waiting... the DMV, the bank, rides at the amusement park, and "sometimes my Mom just won't stop talking"... all could relate. Several of the children offered their solutions, making up stories & songs, or playing with their hands. 
We decided to investigate further...

FREEZE DANCE is super popular
In school, at home, on the playground, everyone loves freeze dance ~ so we decided to borrow the idea. Everybody was up on their feet to hop, skip, run, jump, chase, slide, shimmy, crawl, until... bong! At the sound of the bell we all stopped and relaxed in one spot ~ no talking, no moving until it was over then they took off again busy as bees. Voluntarily they collapsed back onto cushions and lapsed into a spotty silence - each to their own thoughts... sometimes stopping feels extra good.

FAMILY CHALLENGE: Invite your family to practice STOPPING WITH SOUND this week ~ Choose a daily sound in your home ( it could be the doorbell, telephone, water running, pet sounds, etc.) that will remind you to stop and notice your next 3 breaths. Stop to smile and say hello to yourself ~ take a minute to go deeper, connect, and notice wherever it is you are holding tension. If you like, you can recite the "Listen Listen" poem as you relax...  all it takes is the length of 3 breaths. The next time the sound is heard, see who remembers!

MUNCH munch cracker crunch 
Rice crackers were hands down the noisiest food in the room! (who invited those guys!) Apple munching, cracker crunching, and fizzy water fizzings made for a delicious cornucopia of sound. 

TIM and Grandpa Joe 
What a great story! Tim follows Grandpa's excellent example of helping people in need. He finds that he feels amazing... until he doesn't. Tired after a long day, he lapses into negative thoughts circling round and round until another distress call - and he is on the move - doing what is needed and happy to help... until a bit later, even more tired, the grumblings begin again. In the end he is his own mindfulness bell, as he reflects on how much happiness he received by helping others, and in fact all he needs to do is stop, and listen to his inner voice telling him to rest a while.

BREATHE BEADS
Beautiful Work every single one- I am sorry not to have photographed them all! We made lovely clip-ons, and bracelets to help remind us to stop, and connect to our inner place using our breath as the bridge to get there.

TIME FLIES!...
Well, that is about as far as we got this week, and although we missed experimenting with the Space Awareness activity, and learning the C-A-L-M-ing impulses meditation we had one hec of a workshop, and there is always next season to try them out. Our outline is there to support us with the best option for what is happening in the room, and to give you a good idea of what we are doing. So don't be surprised, alarmed, or disappointed when bits fall by the way~ we aren't! ~ the workshop is at it's best when guided, but not hurried. 

See You Sunday! here's a peek at what's next...


Week 3 we experience taking care

Sing-a-long I Follow My Breath (Planting Seeds CD)
Feelings poem and stretch (Planting Seeds)
Discussion and puppet playcaring for our emotions with tenderness & love
Soulful food contemplations: bananas & choco soy milk
Our story is Ahn's Anger by Gail Silver
Greeting Visitors meditation (Child's Mind)
Create your own sock puppet

We Begin With Welcome...




PEACEFUL was our welcome.
What a wonderful way to spend a Sunday morning! It was a family affair as two of our parents stayed to enjoy the time with us, feel free to stop and connect.  Here's a glimpse at what we did...

CREATED a paper garden. Flowers & butterflies, giggled and danced as everyone decorated a shaped name plate, and "planted" them all together - add your name next Sunday, and see how artfully our garden grows!  

SANG  Breathing In, Breathing Out  from the Planting Seeds CD. It supports the pebble meditation we'll be learning in the weeks ahead, sighting flower/fresh, mountain/solid, still water/reflecting, and space/free. (click the title to see a youtube demo)

STRETCHED and learned the words to the "Waking Up" poem. 
Ask your child to teach you the movements we created... 
"Waking up I smile, 24 brand new hours before me,
I vow to live them mindfully, with love and compassion for all beings."
We discovered it works very well seated too! A great way to start each day.

SHARED about our pets 
(we counted horses, turtles, fish, chickens, cats, hermit crabs, dogs, pigs, guinea pigs, potbellied pig, goats, and a frog! Holy guacamole - did we miss anyone?). 

OBSERVED how our breath moves our bellies in and out, 
and spent several mindful minutes exploring an orange using all 5 senses. 
It was nice listening to the bell sound together, and silently focusing on one sense at a time. We discovered so many new details and associations we had never taken the time to notice before. Did you know an orange slice can look like a smile one way, and a mustache the other? Have you heard and felt the fizzy sound and spray on your cheek as you peel it open?  Some felt happy, joyful, even dizzy! So much to experience when we really pay attention to the moment at hand

RELAXED to the excellent story... Peaceful Piggy Meditation by Kerry Lee Maclean. About little piggies learning to self sooth, self settle and begin to work with thoughts and feelings. A great exploration of meditation and it's benefits" for children of all ages

PRACTICED observing our breath with stuffed animal breathing buddies (children are invited to bring a buddy of their own if they prefer!). Resting peacefully and placing our breathing buddy on our tummy, we listened to the Breathing Meditation from  Buddha at Bedtime (a fantastic collection of bedtime stories, and meditations) and experienced for ourselves our buddy move up and down like the waves lapping the shore of our imaginary beach. Some felt calm and happy as they stood on a remembered beach, others scared and powerful as they imagined harpooning sharks waiting in the water - all stayed with the meditation, and every hand raised to mark a good time.

DESIGNED a personal peace sign for planting seeds in petersham T-shirts. Each artist busy at work, every one a masterpiece! I can't wait to see the finished tee's! 

SO GRATEFUL to you for coming together and sharing this time with us! - without your seeds there can be no garden, let's water them together this Sunday!